After achieving goal success, you will feel like you are on cloud nine. You have overcome a challenge in your life and as a result, built a habit that'll bring you to new heights in your life. It's a wonderful feeling but eventually, that dopamine-high from the success fades away. And like so many other people that have obtained success, they are left with a big question: What's next? What should I do now that my goal has been achieved? People are ambitious. But after successfully reaching a goal, people can lose themselves or slow down their momentum of growth. This part of the process is a problem that many individuals face at some point if they haven't faced it already. So, to help you on your way, here are some suggestions for what to do as soon as you achieve your goal and how to better proceed forward.
What to Do Once You Achieve Your Goal?
When you first set yourself a large goal that you're working towards, it's easy for you to focus solely on that goal. There isn't any kind of space at all to think about what you should be doing after you achieve goal success. Fortunately, there are some basic information and lessons that can help you once you reach goal success and move forward in life. These are principles that millionaire Paul Scolardi has put into practice to great effect.((Business Insider:
A self-made millionaire says these are the 4 things you should do once you achieve success)) Here is a breakdown of these principles:
1. Stay Humble
You might not be striving to become a millionaire like Scolardi, however, it's still an important lesson to keep in mind. While you've made great progress, it's important that you don't underestimate what you left behind or look down on those who are in the same situations as you. Growth is a fragile thing and it can easily be replaced with bad habits that push you back into a worse situation. Furthermore, acting cocky or arrogant about your achievements can push people away, whether that's friends, family, or key supporters. That's not good because oftentimes, growth stems from sources beyond ourselves. Many millionaires have mentors to help guide them. Athletes have coaches. We don't often hear about them in particular stories, but many people are involved in your growth in one way or another. Stay humble and recognize who those people are and acknowledge them.
2. Train Yourself to Set Bigger Goals
I'll be expanding on this idea further below. But the idea is that once you achieve a goal you didn't think you could've achieved, you want to continue by
setting a larger goal than that. You want to progressively set goals that you think are impossible to achieve after every successful leap in achievement. For example, if you've achieved a high ranking position at your job, an even bigger goal would be to build your own business in that particular industry.
3. Work Harder and Smarter
When working on your goals, maintaining confidence,
positive thinking, and work are all needed for achievement. Naturally, if you're taking a larger endeavor, you'll need to put in more motivation, confidence, and work into that too. But hard work isn't all that's needed. It also pays to work smarter and reflect on your achievements. What helped you achieve this goal in the first place? What method or approach did you take to make all of this happen for you? Many people lose their way because they let their goal success get to them, and they lose what got them into that lofty position in the first place. That stems from a lack of reflection. So, make sure you look back to what helped you get to where you are right now.
4. Ignore Critics
Haters, critics - they're all the same. Whenever you achieve something, there will always be people who will try to drag you down. Turns out, many people are jealous individuals and go as far as wishing that you would fail. Part of the problem is that many people who haven't worked toward goals expect goal success to be simple. It's something that can be done in a matter of months or weeks even. Not only that, but we are often oblivious to the amount of work that's needed to bring people to pinnacles of success. Take Scolardi. Unless he shares his particular story of how he became a millionaire, we don't really know what he went through to get there. All we know is the tip of the iceberg - that he wasn't a millionaire and now he is. Even if your goal success is going to impact a small area, you're still going to get haters or people who don't believe you. Leave them be as your success has nothing to do with how they are feeling.
What to Do After Goal Success?
With these four principles in mind, you would want to apply these in your life moving forward. Better yet, apply these right now while you are still working towards your goals. But what comes next after you have achieved success? After all, these principles are great, but not all of them will bring you that
momentum you need for the aftermath of your success. Here are some things to be keeping in mind:
1. Set That Bigger Goal or Expand It
As I mentioned before, you want to be setting larger goals. The ambition of people is endless and deep down, you are always looking to achieve more. It sounds greedy, but striving for more doesn't always have to be in the form of money or high achievements. You could reach out to more people and help them out with their problems. Or maybe, you want to form a deeper connection with your family and friends. And in some cases, maybe you want to train for even better physical health and test it by participating in a triathlon. Whatever the case may be, you want to be setting a larger goal than before. In many industries and aspects of your life, there is always room for some kind of expansion. So, when you put your mind to it, you'll find that there are also other ambitions that you have. Another way to look at this is to expand your original goal beyond where it was before. In some cases, there are natural progressions similar to how you want to set milestones that bring you to that achievement. For example, if you're looking to lose weight and you've hit your target, the next target would be to train your body in a specific way, such as training for a local marathon. You're still striving for physical activity, but you'll be training in a different way that your body isn't used to.
2. Help Others Out
Another approach is along the same lines as staying humble. Instead of looking down at people, devote some of your energy to
helping people out. Chances are you got involved in a community or group that helped you to achieve your results in some way. Since that group or community helped you, why not give back to those that helped you? This isn't necessarily progress, but it gives you the respite you need to figure out what you want to do next. All the while, this allows you to pass down and reinforce what you have learned. Remember that your ideals are important, and they can shift if you stray from the path that brought you success in the first place. Helping out the community in some way can help you stay true to your morals and ideals.
3. Look at Other Baskets
As the saying goes "don't put your eggs all in one basket." It's a fitting phrase in our lives as we all have many aspects - or baskets - in our lives. Along the same lines as the first suggestion, perhaps some of you spent so much time building up one basket that you ignored another. In that case, why not look at other baskets and give them the attention that they need?
4. Self Reflect and Find Yourself
The last suggestion that I have is to take some time for yourself. Pause, self reflect, and aim to find yourself once more after this big step of success. It makes sense that after a goal success, you'll want to move onto the next big thing, but it's important you go back to yourself. As mentioned above, there are many aspects of ourselves, and if we focus on one part of ourselves, we weaken the identity of something else. I learned this the hard way as I spent so much time at work that I neglected other areas of my life like my health and family. These aspects are part of my identity and neglecting those for a time caused my life to crumble. All I had was my work. All of that changed when I took upon myself to look at who I was and who I wanted to become and made active changes in my life to find myself again.
Final Thoughts
People want to think that success is easy to obtain and solves all of our problems, but that's not often the case. With each success you achieve, there will be something else that will demand even more from you. Of course, you are free to stay in your current position, but maintaining is important as well. By keeping all of this in mind, having these principles, and applying these practices, you can better prepare yourself for what's to come.
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